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  • 3000 kms of India : Finally it started

    A few trips are exciting even before they start, and more often then not thats how it happens with me…

    A plan to trek, getting converted into living a few days in towns with people to everything getting canceled, my travel plans changing to go to Mumbai/Goa, to the original plan coming to life again suddenly to tatkal booking of the exit tickets from Delhi… it all happened for the last one week, which I spent away from everything and close to myself and yes Aro was around too…

    He happens to me one of my best co travelers… for reasons which are strange… We usually argue a lot when we talk, and most of the time we are not talking as we have different agendas when we travel together ( can’t really say what though)… his walk pace is very different then me and that helps with some space too… the bottom line is he is one of the best people to travel with and I can find 100 best most stupid reasons as well to prove that point…

    So back to the trip…

    We finally decided that we were going to Kanha from Delhi and thats all we knew… rest was going to Fluid… I got the tickets on Friday, and made the bookings the same day in Mogli Resorts, Kanha on Friday….

    Saturday… in the afternoon, my dear friend Aro calls me and tells me that he and Sanjit were lost in Delhi and did not know how to reach NOIDA… it was just about 90 minutes before our train was to leave… fantastic… the excitement starts a li’il earlier than expected…

    and India saw the introduction of a new GPS device that day… Prashant Bhardwaj… I was with him on the phone for about 35 odd minutes guiding the ways and turns before they finally managed to reach NOIDA…

    A quick lunch and 20 minutes to the departure, we rushed… thanks to the DND we were at the platform number 4, to catch the Gondwana Express well in time…

    now this was one long train, 20 coaches to be exact. The reason, the train splits into 2 somewhere in MP and half of it goes to Bilaspur and the rest to Jabalpur…

    Our seats 1, and 2 were in the Coach B1 which was I think third to the last coach on the looooooong train which we managed to reach after walking for a mile I guess… but we did 🙂

    The Coach B1 of Gondwana Express to Jabalpur

    Being in a train coach is a great feeling.. specially the ones in which you can sleep 🙂 After spending sometime, I was dying to be in the train in India.. and here I was… lovely… put our bags in place… and settled…

    The train moved at the right time, and we were off… yippieeeeeeeee….

    Halt just before Mathura Junction…

    Travelling in a train is no fun if you cannot stand at the door watching the world being left behind 🙂 so after about 30 minutes I was out talking to our coach attendents Vinod and Vinod and sitting on the wooden plank which was there for the attendants next to the doors…

    Vinod and Vinod…The coach attendants of B1 (there were 6 attendants who were Vinod on this train)

    I think I must have spent a good 3 hours in all on that plank in the evening, and then again in the night just staring into space and not doing anything else…

    My favorite seat in the entire coach 🙂

    Even managed some sleep on it the next morning with the early morning sunrays kissing my face, and the colder than cool breeze reminding me of the presence of the cold weather…

    The naughty friend we made, Raghav and his father enjoying the morning sun from their seats…

    As expected, conversations started and did not stop during our entire journey to Jabalpur… we got a number of tips from our co passengers on what do and when… we even tried making some amendments to our plan, but managed to stick to the original which was to go to Kanha straight after getting off the train…

    Oh and if you are traveling on that route, then instead of eating the food in the train, you can order food from Comesum @ Agra Cantt… the numbers are : 0562-3296410/11.. just call them about 30 odd minutes before you are reaching and tell them your train name, coach and seat numbers. The food would be delivered at your seat… Also make sure that you ask for the bill amount and arrange for exact change to pay because more often than not the person who comes with your packet would not come with any change, or less than what you should get back so that he can make some money…

    I woke up at 0530 hrs to realize that the train was not moving… We were at the Katni Station (The place to get down it you are going to Bandhavgarh Tiger Reserve, which is about 40 kms away) Had some tea and an interesting conversation with the Tea wallah there… He was a PGDCA, however did not have steady job and decided to sell tea at the station instead of sitting idle at home… he also mentioned that the rest of the boys at the station were graduates with no jobs… not a happy situation, but what helps is that fact that they decided to work hard for a living instead of not doing anything else… Another interesting comment that he made was that put an idiot on the railway station for 3 months and he would transform into an Insaan ( read Smart Ass) in that time… giving his own example he said that he did not have a clue on how to survive there about 2 months back, but had matured and knew people by the sheer looks, and body language much better now…

    We reached Jabalpur around 0800 hrs Saturday.. and our agenda was now to get a ticket for our return journey (Bhopal to Delhi)… Aro filled the form and stood in the line and was thrown out of it after 35 minutes because the lady refused to give him a ticket… well because we did not know the train numbers that will go from Bhopal to Delhi, and we were supposed to know it before we ask her for a ticket… I am wondering if there are 10 trains, do I need to fill in 10 forms and then try or once she tells us that there is no space, we find a different train number and stand in the line again.. Anyway, we decided that we go the safe IRCTC way and took a rickshaw to Russel Chawk to find an internet cafe…

    A Mazaar near the Empire Cinema.. the name was interesting…

    Fresh Dosas being made for us 🙂 at Russel Chawk…

    Decided to eat first, and had some nice Idli Dosa at a roadside thela before we found an internet cafe and booked our tickets from Bhopal to Delhi for the next Saturday…

    Now the next stop was the City Bus Stop and we were to find a bus to Mandla, and then take a bus to Kanha from there…

    Mandla Bus Stand

    The distance we were to travel was about 156 kms with one change of bus… the bus left @ 1030 hrs and reached Mandla ( about 96 kms) at 1330 hrs, which is where we realized that the bus to Kanha was the bus which was coming from Jabalpur only… But this was a welcome break after sitting in the bus for about 3 hours already… so some tea, cold drinks, tea later the bus to Kanha arrived… A smaller but more comfortable bus, and was to move to Kanha at 1400 hrs… I got talking to the conductor and realised that we were still a good 2.5 hours away from Kanha… He was also kind enough to force me to eat a parantha from his lunch, and it was the yummiest thing I had eaten in the last 18 hours…

    The bus moved and thanks to a seat at the back, I was able to observe much more than our previous bus in which I was sitting on the first seat… What follows are some pictures from my seat in the bus… People standing, People sitting, people looking for a seat, and people just looking, relaxing or listening to radio… loved every bit of it…

    On one of our pit stops in Mocha ( not pronounced Moka, but Mocha like in Locha) I had tea with sugar and Salt… needless to say it tasted pretty different and nice… I am looking forward to having that again sometime… one of the reasons why Tiwariji liked to drink the sweet-salted tea is because it helped clean the throat after inhaling a lot of smoke and dust over the day on that route…

    I was both surprised and happy at the condition of the roads in MP so far, and also was glad to see a lot of boards, signs, hoardings demonstrating a lot of work happening on the ground level in the state related to employment, child education, girl education and insurance, personal sanitation (something similar to the project I clicked in Chattisgarh)…

    Many pictures, conversations, and long/short stops later, the bus managed by Mr. Srikant Tiwari reached Kanha where a gypsy from our resort picked us up…

    Tiwari ji on the right…

    Approximately 27 hours later, we were finally in a room.. a huge one and in the middle of almost nowhere… Mogli Resort is in the buffer area of Kanha and for all practical purpose, is a part of the forest itself… so I have to mention that walking around in the dark was pretty scary with all those freaky sounds… Aro somehow was enjoying my fear and was laughing his ass out for nothing !!!

    We were to leave for the safari at 0530 hrs in the morning and we finally called it a day @ 2200 hrs… pretty long and satisfying journey this was…

    The path in the Mogli Resort Lit with Bulb Lanterns in the night

    Now some objective information…
    How to Reach Kanha:
    Take a train to Jabalpur and then a bus/taxi from there to Kanha… Delhi Kanha in a train would take about 17-18 hours and a 3rd Tier AC ticket would cost about Rs. 900.
    Jabalpur station to City Bus Stand:
    Can take a Metro Bus Service ( Rs. 5 per head)

    Shared Auto ( Rs. 5 per head again)

    Cycle Rickshaw ( Rs. 15) Auto (Rs. 20)
    Jabalpur to Mandla:
    Rs. 50 per head
    Distance : 96 kms

    Time : 3 hours approx

    Mandla to Kanha:
    Rs. 38 per head
    Distance : 60 kms
    Time : 3 hours approx

    There are just about 4 buses that run between Mandla and Kanha which makes the travel time higher because they move slow and pick up as many passengers as they can…

    Another alternative is to take the fast bus from Jabalpur @ 0700 hrs which reaches Kanha @ 1330 hrs.

  • Change of State…

    I have to learn how to laugh at a few people I am angry with…Realising that my anger is not helping anyone, and most importantly me… but laughter might just give birth to a few smiles once in a while!!!

    Anger : Out… get out… just get the fkk out !!!

    In fact I wonder if these people are worth anytime, but unfortunately we meet and walk a distance with folks who leave a deep impact on our lives, on our thinking and on our behavior… all in the name of life…

    Fortunately, I have had people I have laughed my lungs out with… and I have had people who made me cry till I could not breathe anymore…

    Extreme pain, access sadness,
    Blank Thoughts, insane madness,

    ….

    Have been feeling a li’il low for the past couple of days.. happens all the time whenever I am back from an amazing trip !!! I guess I need to write about the trip soon and read it myself to get back to life 🙂

  • And I did this and I did that…

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    I traveled in trains, AC and General compartments…
    I traveled in Buses
    I was in a rickshaw, I was in a Jeep, I was in a gypsy, and I walked….


    And for people who don’t know, the above vehicle is referred to as Ganeshji because of its hood looking like the trunk which resembles Ganesha…

    And I saw the world’s highest Shivling, and the world’s third largest Mosque… and rock paintings made about 12000 years ago…

    And I went into a jungle and I saw animals… many 🙂

    And I saw a gully cricket match 🙂 …

    And last but not the least… I loved my trip !!!

    And I think I did not mention this.. the coins in the first picture are arranged on the towns I have visited 🙂 the one on the top (Gwalior) being just a reference point for where I entered the state from…

  • Ta Tu Friends…

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    Off for a week…

    I only know the direction that I am traveling in… rest is all fluid.. just my kind of travel…

    Jo bhi hoga dekha jayega…
    Omie kuch 8 din baad aapke paas wapas aayega 🙂

    Tab tak kijiye thoda kaam aur thoda aaraam…
    Zindagi ko kijiye salaam…

    Ho sake to ek chakkar kahin ka, khud bhi laga aayiye….
    Bahut saari khushi thode se samay mein paiye !!!

  • I am tHiS ThAt aNd MoRe…

    Aro thinks that I am nuts, and a gone case and maybe more…

    Mon thinks I cannot laugh at myself, and that I am too practical…

    Bindiya thinks that I am too much of a matter of fact person…

    Ankur thinks that I judge people too quick…

    Deepak agrees with Ankur…

    Anjuli thinks that I am very rude, and I am arrogant, and that I don’t care about people, and that I am a very good photographer… A lot of other friends also agree with Anjuli…

    Sharanya thinks that I am not a logical person and too emotional…

    Rains thinks that I am very sweet, and rude at times, and that not many people can stay angry with me…

    A lot of women think I am a womenizer… and a few men think so too…

    Nimisha thinks that I have the best sense of humor in the world…

    Adi thinks that I only work because I love to and not for money or growth… he even asks me, Sir, paise ke liye kab kaam karna shuru karoge? 😀

    Ruchi thinks that I carry too much mystery about me, and she gets into a analyse mode when she talks to me….

    And a lot of people think something or the other about me…

    and I am glad that I am all of it, and a lot more actually a hell lott more 🙂

    I am THIS I am THAT and I am MORE…

    I am trying to figure out while I am living my life… and this is how I like to live:

    Well the years start coming and they don’t stop coming
    Fed to the rules and I hit the ground running
    Didn’t make sense not to live for fun
    Your brain gets smart but your head gets dumb

    So much to do so much to see
    So what’s wrong with taking the back streets
    You’ll never know if you don’t go
    You’ll never shine if you don’t glow

    The ice we skate is getting pretty thin
    The waters getting warm so you might as well swim
    My world’s on fire how about yours
    That’s the way I like it and I’ll never get bored

  • I speak this.. you hear that…

    I don’t know how to sugarcoat my words… I might be silent and not speaking… and there are times when its happening because people are new to hearing how I speak and might find it raw… but the good news is thats how I am…

    Thankfully, so far, professionally, I have always been admired and appreciated for my speaking abilities, with a few notes here and there of being too straight forward with words… That should explain and acknowledge the street plays, and the time on and off stage I have spent… God !!! How I wish I live some of that time again sometime… aap sun rahe ho na Uncle? note karlo je wala point please…

    I am not a player of words either… i don’t know how to blow up a conversation by using bigger words and making it sound larger than what it is… probably things which are simple sound better and easily understandable when they are said simply too…

    I love talking in Hindi… and like hearing Hindi… i don’t know if I remember writing a lot of it… its been a while I have not written anything in Hindi on a paper…

    and then again, more often than not my Hindi is the raw Hindi… comes straight, can sound harsh, is not meant to be that way… and people realize that only over a period of time, having said that, there usually are cases where they did not like what i said and how i said it before realizing, that it was not how it was supposed to be heard…

    I guess the western UP Dehati element is something that rules my way of speaking…

    just like

    Prashant becomes a Proshanto in Bengal (I love it for some reason, probably because the way its said, and because the “sh” sound is retained… i like that sound actually)

    and

    Prashant becomes Prasanth during a lot of my conversations with my teams from Bangalore and Madras Hyderabad (and I HATE it; probably because the “sh” sound is removed, and the “th” is added… honestly I am not sure but this version of my name is irritating) In fact, if someone mentions my name incorrectly in an email, I usually point them towards my signature or my address book details where they can refer to the correct spellings….

    and

    Prashant also becomes Parsaant a lot of times… and this always freaks me out… I double Hate it…

    What did I start writing about? oh… the way I speak… yea !!!

    So the fact remains… my way of talking is not sweet, is rough, but honest..

    and when I say ek chamaat padega, I am not really going to hit 🙂 It needs to be translated to “I am not in agreement with what you said, and because I care and I feel connected, and I am expressing my disagreement with what you just said.”

    I like the chamaat line… but if someone chooses to hear it the sophisticated way 🙂 I am game…

  • Yaari Dosri Taaza Maaza…

    Making friends is easy… take a picture show it to the person, and ask if he thinks there is a picture that I can take… and make sure you thank him too 🙂

    the formula works and I know it by experience… because I now have a new set of friends…

    Bimal Kumar… called Kaliya… has a chai ki dukaan near the Khari Bawli T point, Fatehpuri Masjid, Chandni chawk..

    Kishan, the cool dude who handles the shoes at the Shani Dev mandir near the Metro Station, Chandni Chawk…

    Bitto… who sells fruits near the Tpoint as mentioned above…

    Munna, the pan wala, who knows that me and Aro do not want the hard supari in our Meetha Pan…

    Anil Yadav, who sells flowers in the Chandni Chawk Phool Mandi… and looking for a job outside…

    And Munna, told someone who asked what and who we were… that we are writers and photographers, and thats our line… and that we are writing a book… and we are thinking that we should actually…

    Photos coming soon…

    and if you think you are a foodie, i might make you rethink about it…

  • aur pyaar ho gaya !!!

    Bhai, mujhe pyaar ho gaya hai…

    Abe phir !!! abhi pichle hafte wali ka kya hua?

    Bhai, usne after that day skirt hi nai pehni… pyaar sab dhak gaya mera !!!

    Tum BC… sirf badan se pyaar karte ho…

    Par bhai, aatma dikhti nai hai.. sirf body hi dikhti hai…

    Ya right… ab? ab kya dikha..

    Bhai, uska chehra ghoom raha hai saamne.. teen din se… sota hoon to wo nazar aati hai.. uth-ta hoon to wo nazar aati hai… sach mein ho gaya hai is baar to pyaar…

    tereko na, fifth time hua hai pyaar… and guess what in only 4 weeks…

    yaar teri samajh main nai aata.. ye sachcha pyaar hai… tujhse jhoot thodi bolunga… Par mere nai lagta wo bhaw degi… uska boyfriend hai already i guess.. bahut khil khila kar has rahi thi wo us Launde ke saath…

    Achcha hai saale tere liye… tere dil ki MCBC honi hi chahiye…

    tu dost hai ke dushman… kutta kahin ka… main kuch aur dhoondta hoon…

    haan zaroor… chal chai ki dukaan par chalte hain… wahin baith kar discuss karenge..

    chal…

    aur 2 ghante baad…

    bhai…. mereko pyaar ho gaya hai….

  • And So I Travel…

    10 people

    Shimla Railway Station Platform
    Doing what… Singing songs for 3 hours, songs on demand, songs of our choice, songs of my team’s choice, and songs just like that…
    leading the brat pack… your highness 😀
    Occasion… my team outing… took a train to Kalka… an open three wheeler to the bus stand, a bus to Shimla…
    and loved it…

    3 People…
    Arobindo Sanjit Gaurav…
    On our way back from McLeodganj…
    Argued on India and various situations for over 3 hours… non stop… stopped only when the throats started hurting of speaking…

    5 people…
    On the banks of Pangong Tso… high up in the mountains… looking at water, hills, mountains and nothing at the same time… walking around doing nothing and all by ourselves…
    Subbu, Me, Pondy, Gupta and Deepu… in Ladakh…

    4 people…
    Uttarakhand…
    Drove around the state for 4 days… almost 12 hours everyday… with minimum words spoken…

    Friday worked hard… started driving in the evening… and drove almost continuously till 0800 hrs next morning… over 12 hours again…
    Met Ankur for the first time… and Neitya and Nidhi and uncle and aunty for the first time too…

    Salt Lake to Korunamui to Hawrah to Belur Math to Dokkhineshwar to Harwah to BBD Bag to Esplanade to Park Street to Robindro Shodon on a richshaw, bus, boat, bus, ferry, and my tired legs…
    alone…
    My date with Kolkata…
    Thanks Aro for keeping me company on the phone and helping with directions…

    4 people… adventurous…
    trying to climb up a hill top the difficult way…
    realizing that they have done something really stupid when they found out that it was no defined path… and they made their own way through rocks, stones, cactus plants, and no spaces and vertical falls…
    Welcome to a different Pushkar with Me, Gupta, Adi and Shubhi… oh… and how can I forget reaching Pushkar in a li’il less than 6 hours? top speek 160kmph… vehicle : the rocking Petra !!!

    Flight to Banaras… and an overnight sleeper class to Ambikapur… humidity, rattling seats and dust…
    Boat ride in the Ganges
    Aarti from the top of a boat…
    Disgusting commercialization of the temple…

    Delhi – Rishikesh – Chamba – Dhanaulti – Dehradun – Delhi…
    one tank full in my Palio…
    first long drive
    Loads of Buransh all around
    Sunset and sunrise in the hills
    Telling a German friend about India… so loads of talks and drive and silence all around… with Aro, and Martina

    About 15 hours of drive…
    about 4 hours of trek…
    Snow and Snow all around…
    White gets a new definition…
    and Snowfalls gets a new viewer…
    Tungnath… with Tushar, Deepu, Aseem, Subbu and a few more…

    Cab full of people…
    Raft full of people…
    My favorite Left front seat…
    Water all around… water all over… every Rapid like never before… Three Blind Mice, Return to Sender, Good Morning, and many more…
    Flowing in water…. sleeping on the sand…
    Fun, Team, Cheers, Loudness…Tushar, Me and a few more… many times…

    I have

    • looked into silence
    • heard nothing
    • talked with myself
    • shouted
    • driven
    • walked
    • trekked
    • loved
    • hated
    • liked
    • adored
    • cried
    • slept
    • counted stars
    • took a bath in a mountain river
    • not spoken for hours
    • talked for hours
    • had heart to heart conversations with strangers
    • almost died
    • felt like God
    • felt with God
    • seen myself getting wet in rain
    • made a fool out of myself
    • driven fast and very fast
    • enjoyed my own singing
    • cursed
    • smiled
    • thought
    • remembered
    • been surprised
    • been disappointed
    • fallen in love
    • let go

    when I traveled…

    Did i say I have also taken a few pictures when I traveled? 🙂

    p.s. If you want to read about my travel tales… look for the link on the top of the page called “I Travel I Tell” and if you are interested in having a look at the pictures, check out the column on the right with links to all the photo trips… Enjoy…

    And I thought it was only fair to have a few pictures in this post too 🙂 so here we go…

    On my way back from Hemkund (near Valley of Flowers)

    Early morning in Rishikesh… for my favorite sport… Rafting…

    From a drive to Uttaranchal…. 4 days… 12 hours everyday…

    Triund… top of the hill… greenest of green grass…

    We almost got stuck here because of how the trek path was… somehow managed to cross without falling off the hill… This is Tushar…

    Corbett Falls… about 45 minutes from the Jim Corbett…

    Golu Devta Temple @ Chitai… somewhere in Uttaranchal… from the same drive as I mentioned above…

    Lansdowne… Me Deepak and Aseem… long drive that was… from Delhi to Lansdowne to Haridwar and Rishikesh… all in one day…

    One of my favorites pictures EVER… from McLeodganj… Me Aro Gaurav and Sanjit went on a drive…

    After the trek in the to VoF and Hemkunt… 4 days in the hills… and these were brand new shoes before i started…

    One of the many times I went Rafting… love it love it love it..

    Amiad from Israel… who rafted with us once…

    On my way back from Bhakra Nangal… This is called Painting the Town Red 🙂 Jai Radha 🙂

    Bharatpur… bird sanctuary…

    On my way back from Tungnath…
  • Randomizing Myself…

    I have been given an opportunity to write about myself 🙂 I love it… so here we go… oh.. first thanks to Arch @ Rang,who has one of the mostest bestest blogs that I know of, for tagging me… though I am not a keen tagger or the tagged kinds, but I guess I will take this one 🙂

    so here we go… Random things, 7 of them about me…

    1) I have a feeling that I have written something of this sort before as well… some random facts about myself… but I don’t know when or why…

    3) I am very glad to see how my photography has improved in the last one year and I hope that this is just the beginning…

    2) There is a break in my travel for the last two months, and the thought makes me very restless and uneasy. Now that I am back in India, I have to have to go out of Delhi and Chandigarh (to the hills or somewhere else) But I have to… and an official visit to Bangalore DOES not count anymore…

    6) I very seriously considered closing down the Chai Ki Dukaan a week ago, because of how one person interpreted my writing on the blog… but I just woke myself up to the fact, that I have always written for myself and not for anyone. I am fortunate, that there are a few people who like to visit Chai ki Dukaan regularly and share their opinions here…But the fact still remains that I write for myself, however selfish that might sound…

    4) I have not yet given half of my prize money to Sankalp and I don’t like it… I am going to something about it, and will do something to make it up for the delay too…

    7) In the last one year, I have not stayed for 7 continuous nights at one place. This is strange but true 🙂

    5) My shaadi.com profile got deactivated because of inactivity 😀 hehehe !!!! and the pictures that were there, were good enough to scare people away, though I loved those photographs…

    And a random 8th thing… My opinions/judgments about people are based on my individual interactions with them and not because I heard/saw/read something about them… and I am kinda happy about that 🙂

    Oh and the numbers are not in any sequence… random it was to be…