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  • what’s in a (last) name?

    Aro called me today to discuss what was the full name of Ram!

    My instant reaction was Ram Prasad (with my love for Golmal, I could not have come up with something better)
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    Actually he had called me to tell me that Ram was a South Indian!

    He said, D. Ram (and that he was a South Indian) D for Dashrath, and then improvised and said D.A.Ram for Dashrath Ayodhya Ram (and we could go on from there)

    and then we got into a more serious discussion about when did we Indians started using sir-names or like a lot of people call them, last names!

    From how I see it, Indians probably had last names for a very long time, however they were not being used very often because no artifacts being created for the names… no forms were being filled, no admissions happened with paper trails, or salaries being distributed with signed forms… and a lot of people had salutations being used instead of last names!

    I could immediately think of second names of any characters that I know from the past except maybe Tulsi – Das? Kabir also had a second name, but I cannot remember it right now, and he was mostly referred to as Sant Kabir!

    Yudhisthir, Ram, Lakshman, Ravan, Krishn, Bhardwaj, Dronacharya, Parashuram, Akbar, Birbal, Babar, and so on are a few names out of the many that I remember and none have a popular second name reference that I know of… they have salutations though!

    I now recall some names from history, like Sher Shah Suri, Bahadur Shad Zafar, Jalal ud-din Mohammad Akbar. Akbar was more popular by his Last name, so to speak, and was the son of Mohammad Humayun (Complete Title : “Al-Sultan al-‘Azam wal Khaqan al-Mukarram, Jam-i-Sultanat-i-haqiqi wa Majazi, Sayyid al-Salatin, Abu’l Muzaffar Nasir ud-din Muhammad Humayun Padshah Ghazi“). Humayun’s father Babar, had a rather easy complete name, Zahir ud-din Muhammad Jalal ud-din Babur. So it seems to me that Mughals were also using some sort of salutation and the reference to Mohammad in their names!

    As far as Hindu kings and emperors go, I remember some names like Chandragupta Maurya, however there are multiple views on his last name Maurya and his origin, however he is referred to mostly as Chandragupta only. Another name is Hemu Chandra Vikramaditya!!!

    I spent a little more time reading about these names and people and seems like while the second names, or sir names, or Family names ( either before or after the name) have been there for centuries, they have not been very popular in the locals, or maybe they were! We would not know someone who is not that popular from history anyway!

    With the coming of English to India, I think paper trails were introduced, documentation and collection of artifacts and forms started which made the use of second/sir names a much popular and now indispensable norm!

    Thoughts?

    For a long time my take on history was what the first few lines of this song are ЁЯЩВ with time, I have realized that I do care more than what I used to !!!

  • Hot Subjects!!

    I wonder how come English and Biology teachers are often oh so hott in schools!!! and in colleges too!!!

    Shikha Dar, my bio teacher in DAVCPS
    Amrita Sharma, my English teacher in DAVCPS… Not many said it, but when we were getting together for a group photograph in class X, every guy wanted to be as close to Amrita Ma’am as possible ЁЯШЫ

    Is it the subject? or something else?

    Oye Tushar, wo Angrezi ki teacher ka kya naam tha bhai DAV mein? She looked so like Sonali Bendre or better!!! and the day she would wear a saari to college!!! uff!!!

    And the term “English Honors рдХреА рд▓рдбрдХрд┐рдпрд╛рдВ ” used to be a talking point anyway!!! minus a few exceptions ЁЯЩВ

  • Snippets from the School

    Me and Abhishek used to sit on the same bench in class! and there was this one time in English class, when we were sitting on the last bench, for some reason we tried to tilt backwards (the benches did not have a backrest in that class) and the desk just flipped over throwing our bags, our books, and our notebooks on us… and then the bench ofcourse…

    what a scene it was!!!

    Rashmi Shandilya was the teacher in that period! and we used to be her favorite students ЁЯЩВ One of us was also known as her secretary !!!

  • You can’t be my friend if you are “NORMAL”

    I just got thinking of people that I am the closest to, and they reciprocate well… to realize that…I have a friend who drove 4000 kms to relocate
    I have friend who gives me credit for all the chichorapanti she does
    I have a friend who frowns because it takes more muscles to frown than smile and that is his way of working out
    I have a friend who is critical about use of English irrespective of how and when it is used
    I have a friend whose enthusiasm about what all she wants to do after her Ph.D can be intimidating at times
    I have a friend who one fine day just leaves his job and goes back home without a plan in place
    I have a friend who works with an NGO over any other career options because of the small difference it would make to the world
    I have a friend who believes in the not so obvious more than the rest of the world I know
    I have a friend who I connected with after a gap of 10 years like it was just yesterday and is a brilliant pastry chef
    I have friends who get pleasure out of making my life miserable and really not in the “i will take care of him once he starts crying” types but “let’s make him cry for life” types
    I have friends who would fight like crazy over who has more Calvin and Hobbes
    I have friends who treat potty as religion

    Are you normal? sorry you do not qualify !!!

    Here is something to celebrate friendship

    [youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gY_1EbACr9I&w=500&h=405]

  • рдЬрд╝рд┐рдиреНрджрдЧреА рдЖ рд░рд╣рд╛ рд╣реВрдБ рдореИрдВ !!!

    I wonder why I never posted this one earlier !!!

    I have been in love with this song for over a decade now! I remember writing down the lyrics of this song for another friend called Prashant because he heard it from me and liked it too! and I have been told that I sing this one well!

    Love to live by every word of this song, till I live !!!

    This you-tube clip does not have the third antara of this song…

    рдХрднреА рддреБрдЭрдХреЛ рдЧрд┐рд▓рд╛ рдореБрдЭрд╕реЗ, рдХрднреА рдореБрдЭрдХреЛ рд╢рд┐рдХрд╛рдпрдд рд╣реИ
    рдордЧрд░ рдлрд┐рд░ рднреА рддреБрдЭреЗ рдореЗрд░реА, рдореБрдЭреЗ рддреЗрд░реА рдЬрд╝рд░реБрд░рдд рд╣реИ…

    рдореИрдВ рдпреЗ рдЗрдХрд░рд╛рд░ рдХрд░рддрд╛ рд╣реВрдБ, рдореИрдВ рддреБрдЭрд╕реЗ рдкреНрдпрд╛рд░ рдХрд░рддрд╛ рд╣реВрдБ -реи

    рдЬрд╝рд┐рдиреНрджрдЧреА рдЖ рд░рд╣рд╛ рд╣реВрдБ рдореИрдВ !!!

    The song is from the movie Mashaal, directed by Yash Chopra. The lyrics by Javed Akhtar and music by Hridaynath Mangeshkar!

  • As Good as it Gets!

    Jack Nicholson surprises me!!!
    • One Flew Over Cuckoo’s Nest
    • Batman
    • As Good as it Gets
    • A Few Good Men
    • Bucket List
    Unbelievable !!!I wanted to watch just half the movie today but ended up watching the full movie!

    Helen Hunt and Jack Nicholson’s characters in this movie are so real that every 15 minutes I felt that I have witnessed something like this outside the screen around me too! Its not one of those dreamy, Walk in the cloud type romantic movies, but if I have to make a list of romantic movies, this probably would be in some of the top… I want to watch Bridges of Madison County again now…!!! and that is when I cannot handle romantic movies well! But I ended up loving this one…

    Also if you can help, which movie is that where Meg Ryan comes to the city following her boyfriend, and ends up being with a guy who is spying on his ex-girlfriend who is now with Meg’s boyfriend? This guy has some kind of lenses to watch what is happening in the apartment and is projecting on a wall in the one that he is staying!

    Anyway… watch “As Good as it Gets” if you have not seen it already! its beautiful!

    And I just realised that both Helen Hunt and Jack Nicholson got an Academy Award for best actor/actress in a leading role for this movie! I am not surprised! and the Golden Globe awards for best actor and actress too!

  • HELP HELP HELP!!!

    I need help!

    There is a party this sunday! actually an official gathering and I have to prepare a list of hindi movies for Dumb Charades!!!

    The trick is that I need a movie name and one clue from that movie…

    e.g.

    Golmal – act out the interview scene and then tell about the movie
    Sholey – act out an actor from the movie and then the movie
    Darr – act out like Shahrukh and then the movie

    and so on…

    help me out… I need atleast 50 movie names

  • I pressed the 7 button again!!!

    Time and again I have been reminded of a few things!!! one of them is that I cannot rely on luck!!!

    but no! I have to and I did it again!

    I rely on luck and not my work at times, and THAT is my mantra of failure!

    its funny how I realize that every time I am depend on luck! seriously!!!

    Anyway!!! I love this song! enjoy!

    рдмреЛрд▓реЛ рджреЗрдЦрд╛ рд╣реИ рдХрднреА рддреБрдордиреЗ рдореБрдЭреЗ рдЙрдбрд╝рддреЗ рд╣реБрдП?

    just can’t get enough of it!

  • The 7 button!

    How many times has it happened with you that you end up pressing an already lit up floor button or atleast move your finger towards and stop just short of touching it, in an elevator?

    I bet a lot of times!

    Happens with me so often!

    I work on the 7th floor these days, like a lot of other people and more often than not I end up either pushing the 7 button or stop just short of it when I see it lit…

    The point is that I move into the elevator with a thought in mind… that I have to get to the 7th floor and that I need to press the button.. the hand is already ready to push the button when it realizes that its already lit!

    Think about it for a second about some similar other situations too.. where the mind conditions you to do/think/make/move/expect/reject/want something and by the time you realise its too late you have already done that… just that in those cases, the time lag is lot more than the elevator story that I was talking about!

    Typical situations when you first blame someone else for something and then yourself, and then sulk and then feel like an idiot thinking that you made of fool out of yourself! very typical! but a fact… and problem is that its a fact and it was conditioned to happen this way, without it being someone’s fault! but we humans kind of feel better after we have blamed someone for something that went wrong, doesn’t matter if its ourselves! I am not saying that this is correct for 100% of the situations… I know where people are at fault, and I also know that in such cases someone or the other is temporarily blinded by emotions or feelings or what not! I myself being an example of making a complete idiot of myself for one of the biggest decisions of my life sometime back! And at the same time I am also proud of myself for doing a few things that most other people would not have done in similar situations!

    Some facts are facts… why what when who and things like that don’t really matter! what matters is that it happened and its past tense! learn and move on!

    Having said that I am sure I would press that 7 button tomorrow morning when I enter the elevator! ЁЯЩВ

  • Chacha Chaudhary it is!!!

    In a recent poll on Chai ki Dukaan, more than 60% of the voters chose Chacha Chaudhary as the Prime Minister of India along with his super team of Sabu, Rocket, Super Commando Dhruv, Nagraj and so on…

    Lets give them portfolios now! shall we?

    So comment on!

    • Chachaji – Prime Minister
    • Sabu – ? (I give him Internal Security – New Portfolio)
    • Rocket – ? (I give him Special Protection Group – Bite the buggers out, save the specials)
    • Super Command Dhruv – ? (I give him… I dunno)
    • Nagraj – ? (I give him external affairs and defense)

    What about you?