Is the question an answer to the question if the answer was the question?
And the photo… just something that is an important part of my life! and my answer to a lot of things!
Category: Personal
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QA
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The Rule of Thirds
There are three kinds of conversations that a man can live with all his life1. A completely non-sensical braindump of bullcrap with no boundries on groseness or irrelevance of two consecutive words or sentences
2. A intellectually stimulating discussion which focuses on problem solving, development and/or sustainability, short or long term
3. A light hearted conversation and argument to know and tell about how much he is loved, wanted and cared for
Continuing with my mathematics (which ended up in my leg being pulled all the way from Dhaka, which I loved by the way!), let’s do some additions… tell me
1+2+3 = ?
1+2 = ?
1+3 = ?
2+3 = ?
1 = ?
2 =?
3= ?Essentially I am asking; what if a man is getting one or two or all three of these, what does it make him?
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A girl A boy and A planet
“I am a star, a rock star”, she said!”Maybe more than that, maybe a real star”, he said.“And I am out of this world”, she said
“Maybe then you need to have a place to stay outside this world too”, he said
“I think so too”, she said
“Maybe I will make a planet for you, and you could stay there”, he said
“Fantastic”, she said
“And I will name it after you”, he said
“No name it after yourself”, she said
“Kabhi ghar ke upar contractor ya architect ka naam dekha hai likha hua? tere naam par hona chahiye naam.”, he said
“Rahega na tu thekedaar aur architect hi… tujhe artist nahin ban-na lagta hai kabhi. Ghonchu”, she said
“umm… umm… hmm…. Arre par… agar… magar… “,he said and mumbled
“Michelangelo ka kaam kahin bhi rahe, Michelangelo hi kehlaata hai”, she said
“Baat to sahi hai teri! Seekhna padega”, he said
“Chal ab planet bana aur naam rakh”, she said
“Par main naam phir bhi tere upar hi rakhunga”, he said
“achcha achcha ghonchu”, she said
So he spent the days and weeks and months making a planet for her, and when it was ready, he spent days on the name… what could the name be!!! What was it that was the most important for him about her for her about him for them about this and what not…
He finally decided that her planet would be called “Fiducia”
and the people on her planet would be called Fiducians,
He never knew if she liked the name or not, but when he told her about the names, she said “Love you!”, and he said “Love you too”, and she said “As if you have a choice!”
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Hello Ween!
Ok Day at work on FridayBad Evening with a repeat muscle pull… and temporary reduction of movement around the house for a few hours with much uncomfortable pain!!!
Worse Evening with a totally ridiculous movie called “Management”… what a piece of crap!!!
Better ending to the day… sleeping while some movie is on… not even realizing when you slide into a deep sleep is one of the nicer ways to fall asleep!
Not so good start to the day… waking up because of a strange dream at 4 in the morning…
And making it better by spending the day at The Office (watching all 28 episodes of season 5 back to back, with a Japanese movie for a break), getting a 1965 edition of a photography magazine, and buying a Tie for myself.

So all in all, this Halloween turned out to be full of Tricks and Treats for me!!!! purrfect!!!Happy Halloween Everyone, from the Chaiwala, and the Chai Ki Dukaan!
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शुभ दीपावली
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I realize that my emotional need and emotional availability has reduced to a bare minimum over the last few years!Though it does not bother me at all, it ends up impacting my friends who at times need reassurances!
I am not sure if there is something that I want to do about it at this point in time! Got a lot of pending to-dos already!
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what’s in a (last) name?
Aro called me today to discuss what was the full name of Ram!My instant reaction was Ram Prasad (with my love for Golmal, I could not have come up with something better)

Actually he had called me to tell me that Ram was a South Indian!He said, D. Ram (and that he was a South Indian) D for Dashrath, and then improvised and said D.A.Ram for Dashrath Ayodhya Ram (and we could go on from there)
and then we got into a more serious discussion about when did we Indians started using sir-names or like a lot of people call them, last names!
From how I see it, Indians probably had last names for a very long time, however they were not being used very often because no artifacts being created for the names… no forms were being filled, no admissions happened with paper trails, or salaries being distributed with signed forms… and a lot of people had salutations being used instead of last names!
I could immediately think of second names of any characters that I know from the past except maybe Tulsi – Das? Kabir also had a second name, but I cannot remember it right now, and he was mostly referred to as Sant Kabir!
Yudhisthir, Ram, Lakshman, Ravan, Krishn, Bhardwaj, Dronacharya, Parashuram, Akbar, Birbal, Babar, and so on are a few names out of the many that I remember and none have a popular second name reference that I know of… they have salutations though!
I now recall some names from history, like Sher Shah Suri, Bahadur Shad Zafar, Jalal ud-din Mohammad Akbar. Akbar was more popular by his Last name, so to speak, and was the son of Mohammad Humayun (Complete Title : “Al-Sultan al-‘Azam wal Khaqan al-Mukarram, Jam-i-Sultanat-i-haqiqi wa Majazi, Sayyid al-Salatin, Abu’l Muzaffar Nasir ud-din Muhammad Humayun Padshah Ghazi“). Humayun’s father Babar, had a rather easy complete name, Zahir ud-din Muhammad Jalal ud-din Babur. So it seems to me that Mughals were also using some sort of salutation and the reference to Mohammad in their names!
As far as Hindu kings and emperors go, I remember some names like Chandragupta Maurya, however there are multiple views on his last name Maurya and his origin, however he is referred to mostly as Chandragupta only. Another name is Hemu Chandra Vikramaditya!!!
I spent a little more time reading about these names and people and seems like while the second names, or sir names, or Family names ( either before or after the name) have been there for centuries, they have not been very popular in the locals, or maybe they were! We would not know someone who is not that popular from history anyway!
With the coming of English to India, I think paper trails were introduced, documentation and collection of artifacts and forms started which made the use of second/sir names a much popular and now indispensable norm!
Thoughts?
For a long time my take on history was what the first few lines of this song are 🙂 with time, I have realized that I do care more than what I used to !!!
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Hot Subjects!!
I wonder how come English and Biology teachers are often oh so hott in schools!!! and in colleges too!!!Shikha Dar, my bio teacher in DAVCPS
Amrita Sharma, my English teacher in DAVCPS… Not many said it, but when we were getting together for a group photograph in class X, every guy wanted to be as close to Amrita Ma’am as possible 😛Is it the subject? or something else?
Oye Tushar, wo Angrezi ki teacher ka kya naam tha bhai DAV mein? She looked so like Sonali Bendre or better!!! and the day she would wear a saari to college!!! uff!!!
And the term “English Honors की लडकियां ” used to be a talking point anyway!!! minus a few exceptions 🙂
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Snippets from the School
Me and Abhishek used to sit on the same bench in class! and there was this one time in English class, when we were sitting on the last bench, for some reason we tried to tilt backwards (the benches did not have a backrest in that class) and the desk just flipped over throwing our bags, our books, and our notebooks on us… and then the bench ofcourse…what a scene it was!!!
Rashmi Shandilya was the teacher in that period! and we used to be her favorite students 🙂 One of us was also known as her secretary !!!




