Why do we get married…?
Why do your parents really want you marry as soon as you start earning a decent amount… at times as soon as you start earning (in cases of some girls)
Kanu said for every why, ask a “why not”
I asked why… and then I asked why not too… lemme see what came up as a result…
Why get married…
Get emotional support from your better half… if i may call her
Have someone to get back to…
Start a family…
Your parents wish…
You found the right girl… or maybe you just think that you found the right girl…
To become financially more dependent… to start planning accordingly with her…
You cannot wait any longer… you’ve been a virgin all your life… and marriage is the only savior now…
And now… why not?
Coz you are not ready…
Coz you think you are scared to take up this big a responsibility
Coz you are afraid that it’s too big a gamble…
Coz you want to live your life just a li’il more then what you have yet…
Coz you are an independent person… and really are not looking for a partner…
Coz you do not think marriage is going to add any value to your or your life…
I do not know how many of the above mentioned things are valid… they are just thoughts that came to my mind… and I do not necessarily agree to one or some or all of them… but then marriage I think is much more then answers to these questions…
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